"Why be good when being bad is considered to be cool?
Why does always bad things happen to good people?
In a society where people get away by doing bad things, why should people still believe in 'Dharma'?
Is a "bad person" never good? Does not the "good" sometimes become bad?
Ultimately what is good and bad? What exactly is our Dharma?
Isn't there a certain degree of good in all evil and a certain degree of evil in all good?
How does one come to terms with the uncertain ethics of the world around us?
Was the great epic called 'Mahabharata' about 'war' or was it about 'peace'?
Is Mahabharata relevant in today's world?
How does one deal with 'moral' dilemmas when along both sides are one's own people?
Should one forgive the wrong doer or take revenge?
Is moral blindness an intracable human condition or can one change it?"
A lot many times we grope hard in the dark for a lot of these answers. There is hardly anyone who at some or the other point in life has not found himself struggling with these moral dilemmas. Through the elaborate analysis of the powerful characters of Mahabharata, the great author tries to find some of these answers.
First, why does a person stray on the wrong path? For Duryodhana, it was envy and the influence of his uncle on him. For his father, it was insecurity. For Ashwathaama, it was revenge. For Karna, it was a search for his identity. Reasons could be many more. The idea is that in life, several things/emotions/circumstances have the power to easily stray one from the right path. In today's world, where a bride is burnt alive, a lot many times, the reason is greed. Bhisma, Drona and many such learned men knew the Kauravas were wrong in what they did to the Indian Queen Draupadi. But their loyalties were not towards what was ethical but towards a throne. A lot many times, we follow the wronged ones just because they are our blood relations; knowing very well that the same will lead to a doom for not just us but them as well in the long run. In times of moral dilemmas, it is easier to weigh the two sides not on who is ethical but on who is closer to us. And that, as the book conveys is disastrous for everyone and not just the victim.
Second, what is one supposed to do when wronged? Does one forgive or does one avenge? Are there are limits of tolerance? Yudhistra resisted war even after losing everything. But his goodness was exploited way too far.
My favourite chapter of the book is 'Draupadi's Courage'. When she is brought to the assembly, her first question is to her husband : 'Whom did you lose first, yourself or me?'
This line has haunted me for days. Clearly, her husband must have lost his conscience first to have staked his wife. For how could he stake the woman he was supposed to protect? What is left of Dharma? For Draupadi, when honest people fail in their duties to speak against wrong, they 'wound' dharma and deserve punishment. If only someone had done that in the assembly, the catastrophic war could have been avoided.
The best part of the book is it does not try to take sides, it does not preach. It only tells us that world is made to be imperfect. And how we can still be good and carve out what we want to become rather than let circumstances define that for us.
Some of the greatest messages/lines of the book are:
- Do good to others but only to the point where goodness does not hurt. Yudhishtra was good but he realized his goodness was being exploited too far and was sending a wrong message. His final decision to go to war was to send the message that goodness should not be exploited too far. Yudhistra's journey from the assembly to the Kurukshetra is insightful.
- Let no man do to another which is repugnant to himself. How would you feel if it was you who was suffering?
- When in a dilemma, choose the right person and not merely the one close to you. Arjuna knows if he fights, he would be killing his own loved ones, gurus, family members. But as Krishna explains to him, it is in such times one's true character is tested. Arjuna needs to fight not for his sake but for the sake of 'Dharma'.
- Dharma is subtle.
- I fear not death as I fear a lie
- Remorse is different from regret. Someone who is remorseful will always reject a consolation of his wrong doings. Most times, when we do wrong to someone, we feel regret but not remorse. We try to find a rational explanation to our wrong doings, blaming it on circumstances/people. Remorse comes when you feel the suffering of fellow human being to an extent, where suffering becomes your own. A person who is truly remorseful only finds ways to make amends and not reasons to forgive himself.
- The process of becoming a good person is an art.
- Each person, no matter who he is needs to deal with the consequences of his actions, his decisions.
- Abandoning someone devoted to you is a bottomless evil. How Yudhistra did not even abandon a stray dog because the dog was loyal to the King finally opened the doors of heaven for him.
- Unexamined life is not worth living.
- What we change internally will change the outer reality.
- There are times when turning the other cheek really sends a wrong signal.
- I act because I must
- Mahabharata is not about war but peace
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Why should we be good? How should we be good? And how might we more deeply understand the moral and ethical failings--splashed across today's headlines--that have not only destroyed individual lives but caused widespread calamity as well, bringing communities, nations, and indeed the global economy to the brink of collapse? In The Difficulty of Being Good, Gurcharan Das seeks answers to these questions in an unlikely source: the 2,000 year-old Sanskrit epic, Mahabharata. A sprawling, witty, ironic, and delightful poem, the Mahabharata is obsessed with the elusive notion of dharma--in essence, doing the right thing. When a hero does something wrong in a Greek epic, he wastes little time on self-reflection; when a hero falters in the Mahabharata, the action stops and everyone weighs in with a different and often contradictory take on dharma. Each major character in the epic embodies a significant moral failing or virtue, and their struggles mirror with uncanny precision our own familiar emotions of anxiety, courage, despair, remorse, envy, compassion, vengefulness, and duty. Das explores the Mahabharata from many perspectives and compares the successes and failures of the poem's characters to those of contemporary individuals, many of them highly visible players in the world of economics, business, and politics. In every case, he finds striking parallels that carry lessons for everyone faced with ethical and moral dilemmas in today's complex world.Written with the flair and seemingly effortless erudition that have made Gurcharan Das a bestselling author around the world--and enlivened by Das's forthright discussion of his own personal search for a more meaningful life--The Difficulty of Being Good shines the light of an ancient poem on the most challenging moral ambiguities of modern life.
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Gurcharan Das is the author of the much-acclaimed India Unbound, which has been translated into many languages and filmed by the BBC. He writes a regular column for six Indian newspapers, including the Times of India, and occasionally for Newsweek, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, and Foreign Affairs. His other books include the novel A Fine Family; a book of essays, The Elephant Paradigm; and an anthology, Three English Plays, consisting of Larins Sahib, 9 Jakhoo Hill, and Mira.
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Delivered the very next day, this masterpiece is a collection of essays by public intellectual, Gurcharan Das, where he analyses some of the major characters of the Mahabharata, employing both eastern and western ideals, questioning their morality and motive, and leaving us breathless with the sheer brilliance with which he attempts such an ambitious task, and the sheer success of the said task.Despite being a decade old, this collection of essays feels still just as fresh as they must have been during its the publication of its first edition. Written in response to time of chaos, the essays discuss how the characters in the Mahabharata speak to and resonate with the author; he further makes analogies of the events in the epic with real-life occurrences and controversies.Despite being a critique and an analysis of such a mammoth work, never does the author falter or get lost in the labyrinth that he himself is attempting to make sense of. Perfectly readable and a copious amount of notes for further reading, this book is highly recommended.P.S. This book was delivered the very next day and in mint condition. The font is medium and readable. Furthermore, the pages are thick enough to withstand the onslaught of my highlighters. And trust me, you'll need a LOT of highlighters because this book deserves to be annotated the heck out of!
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Delivered the very next day, this masterpiece is a collection of essays by public intellectual, Gurcharan Das, where he analyses some of the major characters of the Mahabharata, employing both eastern and western ideals, questioning their morality and motive, and leaving us breathless with the sheer brilliance with which he attempts such an ambitious task, and the sheer success of the said task.
Despite being a decade old, this collection of essays feels still just as fresh as they must have been during its the publication of its first edition. Written in response to time of chaos, the essays discuss how the characters in the Mahabharata speak to and resonate with the author; he further makes analogies of the events in the epic with real-life occurrences and controversies.
Despite being a critique and an analysis of such a mammoth work, never does the author falter or get lost in the labyrinth that he himself is attempting to make sense of. Perfectly readable and a copious amount of notes for further reading, this book is highly recommended.
P.S. This book was delivered the very next day and in mint condition. The font is medium and readable. Furthermore, the pages are thick enough to withstand the onslaught of my highlighters. And trust me, you'll need a LOT of highlighters because this book deserves to be annotated the heck out of!
Despite being a decade old, this collection of essays feels still just as fresh as they must have been during its the publication of its first edition. Written in response to time of chaos, the essays discuss how the characters in the Mahabharata speak to and resonate with the author; he further makes analogies of the events in the epic with real-life occurrences and controversies.
Despite being a critique and an analysis of such a mammoth work, never does the author falter or get lost in the labyrinth that he himself is attempting to make sense of. Perfectly readable and a copious amount of notes for further reading, this book is highly recommended.
P.S. This book was delivered the very next day and in mint condition. The font is medium and readable. Furthermore, the pages are thick enough to withstand the onslaught of my highlighters. And trust me, you'll need a LOT of highlighters because this book deserves to be annotated the heck out of!

Delivered the very next day, this masterpiece is a collection of essays by public intellectual, Gurcharan Das, where he analyses some of the major characters of the Mahabharata, employing both eastern and western ideals, questioning their morality and motive, and leaving us breathless with the sheer brilliance with which he attempts such an ambitious task, and the sheer success of the said task.
Despite being a decade old, this collection of essays feels still just as fresh as they must have been during its the publication of its first edition. Written in response to time of chaos, the essays discuss how the characters in the Mahabharata speak to and resonate with the author; he further makes analogies of the events in the epic with real-life occurrences and controversies.
Despite being a critique and an analysis of such a mammoth work, never does the author falter or get lost in the labyrinth that he himself is attempting to make sense of. Perfectly readable and a copious amount of notes for further reading, this book is highly recommended.
P.S. This book was delivered the very next day and in mint condition. The font is medium and readable. Furthermore, the pages are thick enough to withstand the onslaught of my highlighters. And trust me, you'll need a LOT of highlighters because this book deserves to be annotated the heck out of!
Despite being a decade old, this collection of essays feels still just as fresh as they must have been during its the publication of its first edition. Written in response to time of chaos, the essays discuss how the characters in the Mahabharata speak to and resonate with the author; he further makes analogies of the events in the epic with real-life occurrences and controversies.
Despite being a critique and an analysis of such a mammoth work, never does the author falter or get lost in the labyrinth that he himself is attempting to make sense of. Perfectly readable and a copious amount of notes for further reading, this book is highly recommended.
P.S. This book was delivered the very next day and in mint condition. The font is medium and readable. Furthermore, the pages are thick enough to withstand the onslaught of my highlighters. And trust me, you'll need a LOT of highlighters because this book deserves to be annotated the heck out of!
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Great Book for beginners in non-fiction and in morality and modern days ethics.
Author has beautifully related it with the Mahabharata and its characters and tried to connect it with modern day philosophical and especially ethical questions a middle class person in India may have.
But Mahabharata is multi-layered epic which is rich in allegorical tales, moral dilemmas and has great Hindu philosophical discourse of Gita which is essence of Vedanta. If you are looking for these you will be disappointed as heavy philosophical questions are avoided by author or maybe he simply doesn't gets it.
But Author never claims to give philosophical discourse on Mahabharata, buy it read it and keep it.
Author has beautifully related it with the Mahabharata and its characters and tried to connect it with modern day philosophical and especially ethical questions a middle class person in India may have.
But Mahabharata is multi-layered epic which is rich in allegorical tales, moral dilemmas and has great Hindu philosophical discourse of Gita which is essence of Vedanta. If you are looking for these you will be disappointed as heavy philosophical questions are avoided by author or maybe he simply doesn't gets it.
But Author never claims to give philosophical discourse on Mahabharata, buy it read it and keep it.
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Everyone has own understanding about dharma ..
But one should learn about dharma feom yudhishthir point of view..
Reading this third time ..
But one should learn about dharma feom yudhishthir point of view..
Reading this third time ..
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It is more opinion based book, shows author's opinion but usually a neutral tone which lets reader make their interpretation is better.
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This is the best book that I have ever read.
This book is a part of a prescribed readings for a course on the teachings of bagavad gita, Integral Karmayoga, at IIT Madras.
I was not much knowledgeable in the mythological stories like Mahabharata and Ramayana. so, I was curious about why these are lauded so much all around India.
when I started reading the book, every chapter intrigued me so much, it was like knowing something profound which I have not come across. Every part inspired and encouraged me to understand more and develop rationale similar to the one possessed by the characters discussed.
The book is based on extensive research on the literature on Mahabharata and every conclusion is very well referenced.
This book is a part of a prescribed readings for a course on the teachings of bagavad gita, Integral Karmayoga, at IIT Madras.
I was not much knowledgeable in the mythological stories like Mahabharata and Ramayana. so, I was curious about why these are lauded so much all around India.
when I started reading the book, every chapter intrigued me so much, it was like knowing something profound which I have not come across. Every part inspired and encouraged me to understand more and develop rationale similar to the one possessed by the characters discussed.
The book is based on extensive research on the literature on Mahabharata and every conclusion is very well referenced.
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Offers a broader view on Hinduism and it's origins.
Offers the broad view of how Hinduism is based in questioning and diversity.
Offers the broad view of how Hinduism is based in questioning and diversity.
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This book is amazing it provides a very current take on ancient wisdom ...
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This book is amazing it provides a very current take on ancient wisdom derived from Hinduism but relevant to all of us managing life in 21st century! Loved it!

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Perfect commentary to the Mahabharata.
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Of course, the first thing to note is, there is NO POINT buying this book is you have no knowledge of the plot of the Mahabharata, as this book does not take the time to tell the story in detail. Otherwise, it would be easily 100 volumes!
It is a very astute, modern and critical commentary on the story. The writer, a successful Indian business man with a western philosophical education, manages to blend in both a discussion of Eastern culture and Western perception, making this more relevant for the Western reader, as well as Indian readers who want to examine the text through Anglo-Saxon lenses.
Especially helps to work through sometimes difficult and seemingly contradictory plot lines - a must, if you like me, have been confused by the epic.
It is a very astute, modern and critical commentary on the story. The writer, a successful Indian business man with a western philosophical education, manages to blend in both a discussion of Eastern culture and Western perception, making this more relevant for the Western reader, as well as Indian readers who want to examine the text through Anglo-Saxon lenses.
Especially helps to work through sometimes difficult and seemingly contradictory plot lines - a must, if you like me, have been confused by the epic.

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The book that will make you look at everything around you differently!
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This book took me by storm. I purchased it at the suggestion of my cousin after we were having a spiritual conversation that first started on What's App. I have spent every spare moment I have reading this book. As a Hindu Indian who has been born and raised in the US I loved the references to Greek mythology and the Western philosophers as we spend a lot of time studying this in school. I have always thought that there are many parallels between Greek mythology and the epics of the Hindu religion. I appreciated how Mr. Das compared and contrasted them.
While I was reading the book I couldn't help but see the parallels to what is happening right now in the US during our election year. The Mahabharata is playing out right here in front of me. I couldn't help but slot current politicians into the various characters in the Mahabharata. And once I started down that road, you can analyze almost any situation we are facing today - terrorism, corporate greed, personal family situations, etc. along the lines of the Mahabharata and of course the Mahabharata that plays out inside of us individually. I could relate to each character - I've experienced each one of those traits - envy, courage, revenge, the unevenness of dharma, etc. I could go on. I especially appreciated how he used examples that are in current times that I could relate to whether it was his own personal experiences, the Ambani brothers, or the Financial Crisis of 2008.
I especially appreciated this commentary on how there is very little remorse today. We need more people like Yudhishthira to actually feel remorse when they've done wrong. As he rightly mentions there was no remorse after the 2008 Financial crisis or the many other things that play out in the global arena. Our leaders whether political, corporate, or religious have lost sight of their dharma.
If I could offer a few suggestions to improve the book it would be that there were some things that were repeated quite often. Perhaps this was for the readers who have no information about the Mahabharata and that's why he continued to repeat many of the facts, I don't know. The other suggestion I have is that he very briefly touches on the fact had the Pandavas always followed dharma and not fought the war or had fought fairly they would have most probably have lost and that perhaps being dharmic means you lose in the world that we live in. I would have liked to hear more about this because it makes me question is it really possible to follow dharma and succeed in the world we live in? Or do you really have to choose between succeeding in the material world or succeeding with your higher being. He also briefly speaks about but perhaps this was destined because Krishna wanted to kill off the kshastrias because they as a group had too much pride, ego, etc. In which case is the demise of the kshastria class a result of their collective karma.
I really loved the book - but I would love to see a sequel that expands on some of the issues that Mr. Das did not dive deep on. The book definitely made me think of a variety of things going on the world as well as my own personal life. I would highly recommend this book to anyone!!
And lastly, as Mr. Das mentions early in the book why isn't the Mahabharata read more, analyzed more and studied throughout the world? This is an epic that merits more attention and we need more people like Mr. Das to bring our great epics and literature to a global stage.
While I was reading the book I couldn't help but see the parallels to what is happening right now in the US during our election year. The Mahabharata is playing out right here in front of me. I couldn't help but slot current politicians into the various characters in the Mahabharata. And once I started down that road, you can analyze almost any situation we are facing today - terrorism, corporate greed, personal family situations, etc. along the lines of the Mahabharata and of course the Mahabharata that plays out inside of us individually. I could relate to each character - I've experienced each one of those traits - envy, courage, revenge, the unevenness of dharma, etc. I could go on. I especially appreciated how he used examples that are in current times that I could relate to whether it was his own personal experiences, the Ambani brothers, or the Financial Crisis of 2008.
I especially appreciated this commentary on how there is very little remorse today. We need more people like Yudhishthira to actually feel remorse when they've done wrong. As he rightly mentions there was no remorse after the 2008 Financial crisis or the many other things that play out in the global arena. Our leaders whether political, corporate, or religious have lost sight of their dharma.
If I could offer a few suggestions to improve the book it would be that there were some things that were repeated quite often. Perhaps this was for the readers who have no information about the Mahabharata and that's why he continued to repeat many of the facts, I don't know. The other suggestion I have is that he very briefly touches on the fact had the Pandavas always followed dharma and not fought the war or had fought fairly they would have most probably have lost and that perhaps being dharmic means you lose in the world that we live in. I would have liked to hear more about this because it makes me question is it really possible to follow dharma and succeed in the world we live in? Or do you really have to choose between succeeding in the material world or succeeding with your higher being. He also briefly speaks about but perhaps this was destined because Krishna wanted to kill off the kshastrias because they as a group had too much pride, ego, etc. In which case is the demise of the kshastria class a result of their collective karma.
I really loved the book - but I would love to see a sequel that expands on some of the issues that Mr. Das did not dive deep on. The book definitely made me think of a variety of things going on the world as well as my own personal life. I would highly recommend this book to anyone!!
And lastly, as Mr. Das mentions early in the book why isn't the Mahabharata read more, analyzed more and studied throughout the world? This is an epic that merits more attention and we need more people like Mr. Das to bring our great epics and literature to a global stage.
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